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| Attitude Vs. Aptitude |
Did you know that a major source of stress in your life is the "fear of rejection" or "fear of criticism?"
This fear of rejection manifests itself in an over-concern for the approval or disapproval of your boss or other people. The fear of rejection is often learned in early childhood as the result of a parent giving the child what psychologists call "conditional love."
Rise Above the Need For Approval
Many parents made the mistake of giving love and approval to their children only when their children did something that they wanted them to do. A child who has grown up with this kind of conditional love tends to seek for unconditional approval from others all his or her life. When the child becomes an adult, this need for approval from the parent is transferred to the workplace and onto the boss. The adult employee can then become preoccupied with the opinion of the boss. This preoccupation can lead to an obsession to perform to some undetermined high standard.
Avoid Type A Behavior
Doctors Rosenman and Friedman, two San Francisco heart specialists, have defined this obsession for performance as "Type A behavior." Experts have concluded that approximately 60% of men and as many as 30% of women are people with Type A behavior.
Don't Burn Yourself Out
This Type A behavior can vary from mild forms to extreme cases. People who are what they call "true Type A's" usually put so much pressure on themselves to perform in order to please their bosses that they burn themselves out. They often die of heart attacks before the age of 55. This Type A behavior, triggered by conditional love in childhood, is a very serious stress-related phenomenon in the American workplace.
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Quotes of the Week |
"To me art in order to be truly great must, like the beauty of Nature, be universal in its appeal. It must be simple in its presentation and direct in its expression, like the language of Nature." - Mahatma Gandhi
"Striving for excellence motivates you; striving for perfection is demoralizing." - Harriet Braiker
"Part of being a champ is acting like a champ. You have to learn how to win and not run away when you lose. Everyone has bad stretches and real successes. Either way, you have to be careful not to lose your confidence or get too confident." - Nancy Kerrigan
"Our goals can only be reached through a vehicle of a plan, in which we must fervently believe, and upon which we must vigorously act. There is no other route to success." - Stephen A. Brennan
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"All of us have problems with our jobs, with our environment, etc., and we hope very ardently that change of our own character and attitudes will help us to fit better into the environment in a cosmically pleasing way. One cannot escape one's predetermined existential parameters, caused by our samskaras (impressions, grossness), by artificially changing our environment. Sahaj Marg (Natural Path) says very correctly that only by changing one's own self is a total change possible. Otherwise, everything else is nothing but escapism."
Shri. P. Rajagopalachari, President, Shri Ram Chandra
Mission -http://www.sahajmarg.org
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Time - Nathan's Wish |
My neighbor, Miss Sandy, is a Raptor Rehabilitator. That means she takes care of injured birds of prey, like owls and hawks, until they are well enough to fly again. Every day I watch Miss Sandy mix medicines, give out food, and clean the big cages in her backyard. No matter how tired or busy she is, Miss Sandy always takes time to talk to me about the birds. More than anything, I wish I could walk by myself. Then I would help Miss Sandy with her chores instead of just watching her. But I have cerebral palsy, and my muscles don’t work well enough for me to get around without my wheelchair or walker.
One day Miss Sandy shows me a Screech Owl with a broken wing. Even though the owl’s wing is set in a splint, she flaps against the sides of her crate, trying to escape. “She’ll have to stay here until her wing heals,” says Miss Sandy. “What do you think we should call her, Nathan?” The owl’s bright yellow eyes flash with anger. “How about Fire?” I say. “That’s a good name for her,” says Miss Sandy. “I hope Fire will calm down soon.”
But day after day, Fire fights to be free, and I worry that she might hurt herself again. At last Miss Sandy takes the splint off Fire’s wing and moves her to a cage. “Fire needs to practice using her wing a little at a time,” she tells me. As the weeks go by, Fire’s wing grows stronger and she is moved to a bigger cage. Sometimes Fire ignores the dead mice that Miss Sandy puts into her cage and peers out at the sky instead. I can tell that Fire wants to go hunting for her own food. “How much longer will she have to stay?” I ask.
“A broken wing takes a long time to get strong again,” says Miss Sandy. “I believe you are as impatient as Fire, Nathan!”
Miss Sandy is right. I can’t wait for Fire to be free. When I see a bird flying outside the window at school, I think about Fire and forget to listen to what my teacher is saying.
At night I hear a ghostly cry coming from Miss Sandy’s yard and wonder if Fire is calling to her friends.
One day Fire’s cage is empty. She is inside a small box that Miss Sandy is holding in her hands. “I’m going to put Fire in the flight cage to see how far she can fly,” Miss Sandy tells me.
My heart thumps in my ears as I follow along. Maybe if Fire flies well enough, Miss Sandy will let her go today! I suck in my breath as Miss Sandy gently dumps Fire out of the box and into the huge flight cage. Fire springs forward and soars through the air, looking strong and beautiful.
But suddenly she tilts to one side and begins to drop lower in the cage. Even though I squeeze my eyes closed, hear a soft thud as Fire tumbles to the ground. When I open my eyes, Miss Sandy is shaking her head. And all at once I realize that Fire can never be released. Her wing isn’t strong enough for her to survive in the wild. “Poor Fire,” says Miss Sandy. “She wished so badly to be free.” I turn away so Miss Sandy won’t see the tears slipping down my cheeks.
I know just how it feels to wish for something that can’t come true. After that, the light goes out of Fire’s eyes. She refuses to eat and doesn’t even try to escape from her cage. “Please don’t give up, Fire,” I whisper. But Fire sits as still as a statue on her perch.
There must be some way I can help Fire. I search on my computer for information about injured birds. I read about a Great Horned Owl who is nearly blind. She takes care of orphaned baby owls until they are old enough to be released. Maybe Fire could do that, too! I print out the article and show it to Miss Sandy. “It’s worth a try,” she says. “I have three nestlings who were orphaned in the storm last week.” Miss Sandy puts the nesting box in Fire’s cage. The baby owls bob their heads and make funny peeping sounds. But Fire does not seem to care about the hungry nestlings, or anything else. I cannot bear to see her looking so sad.
I stay at home feeling sorry for Fire—and myself. One evening I hear a pounding at our door, and Miss Sandy comes rushing inside. “Come with me, Nathan!” she cries. “You must see Fire!” Before I know what is happening, I am bumping along the path to Miss Sandy’s house.
Miss Sandy parks me outside of Fire’s cage. “Look!” she whispers. I can hardly believe my eyes! Fire picks up a piece of meat from the ground, hops up to the nesting box, and stuffs the meat into a baby owl’s mouth. Although Fire’s wish to be free can’t come true, she has found something important to do. And that gives me an idea! The next day I go to Miss Sandy’s house and look around her yard. I may not be able to walk by myself, but I am going to find a way to help Miss Sandy with her chores. I know the buckets are too heavy for me to carry, yet maybe I can fill the birds’ bathing basins with the hose. It takes a long time to untangle the hose and drag it to each cage. But I don’t give up until all the basins are full.
When I see the mail truck coming down the road, I hurry to the end of the driveway and wait for the mail carrier to give me Miss Sandy’s mail. I tuck the letters into my jacket pocket and take them inside.
When it’s time for Miss Sandy to feed the birds, I offer to stay in the office and answer the phone for her. The phone rings four times, and I carefully write down every message.
Before I leave for home, Miss Sandy reaches out and hugs me. “You were a big help to me today, Nathan,” she says.
I duck my head and my cheeks burn. But I cannot keep from smiling. Now I know just how proud Fire must feel!
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Inspirational Words |
"He who has not Christmas in his heart will never find it under a tree." - Roy L. Smith
"A man born in the world, by proper thought comes to delight in goodness, he recognizes the impermanence of wealth and beauty; and looks upon religion as his best ornament." - Fo-Sho-Hing-Tsan-King
"From this point on you really know. This is called the pinnacle of Zen, the sovereignty of Zen. It is also called knowledge of what is knowable; it produces all the various states of meditation, and anoints the heads of all spiritual princes. In all fields of form, sound, fragrance, flavor, feeling, and phenomena, you realize complete perfect enlightenment. Inside and outside are in complete communion, without any obstruction at all." - Pai-chang
"A wise man should have money in his head, but not in his heart." - Jonathan Swift
"Ethics, too, are nothing but reverence for life. That is what gives me the fundamental principle of morality, namely, that good consists in maintaining, promoting, and enhancing life, and that destroying, injuring, and limiting life are evil." - Albert Schweitzer
"Take a music bath once or twice a week for a few seasons, and you will find that it is to the soul what the water bath is to the body." - Oliver Wendell Holmes
"When you examine the lives of the most influential people who have ever walked among us, you discover one thread that winds through them all. They have been aligned first with their spiritual nature and only then with their physical selves." - Albert Einstein
"What is this true meditation? It is to make everything: coughing, swallowing, waving the arms, motion, stillness, words, action, the evil and the good, prosperity and shame, gain and loss, right and wrong, into one single koan." - Hakuin
"What you become directly influences what you get." — Jim Rohn
"The sleeping fox catches no poultry." - Benjamin Franklin
"In life, as in football, you won't go far unless you know where the goalposts are." - Arnold H. Glasgow
"No great deed is done by falterers who ask for certainty." - George Eliot
"The real contest is always between what you've done and what you're capable of doing. You measure yourself against yourself and nobody else." - Geoffrey Gaberino
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Time to Smile |
| Thank You for This Food
A 4-year-old boy was asked to return thanks before a big dinner. The family members bowed their heads in expectation. He began his prayer, thanking God for all his friends, naming them one by one. Then he thanked God for Mommy, Daddy, brother, sister, Grandma, Grandpa, and all his aunts and uncles. Then he began to thank God for the food. He gave thanks for the turkey, the dressing, the fruit salad, the cranberry sauce, the pies, the cakes, even the Cool Whip.
Then he paused, and everyone waited--and waited. After a long silence, the young fellow looked up at his mother and asked, "If I thank God for the broccoli, won't he know that I'm lying?"
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